4 Ways to Be Successful Even in Challenging Times

Brief 

Challenging times can energize us to rise to the occasion if we can see a better future based on our own definition of success and don’t give in to the temptation to blame others, writes LaRae Quy. “We need to harden up, because self-righteousness can be addictive if we let it run amok,” Quy writes.

Insight

I grew up around cowboys and horses in Wyoming; phrases like “country hick” and “hee-haw” were thrown out to remind me that I wasn’t as sophisticated or bright as my urban counterparts. I didn’t need their insults to point out that, because of my upbringing and circumstances, I was different.

I suspect that I’m not the only one who has felt the sting of prejudice and stereotype and been left wondering 1) whether they were true, and 2) how to move beyond them. I would be lying if I didn’t admit that I, too, wondered how to wade through those troubled waters and come out stronger on the other side.

It wasn’t until I was an adult that I began to appreciate how life on a remote cattle ranch had prepared me for success in life. I learned about nature, how to work with my hands, how to spend long periods in harsh winter storms and go to university against the odds.

I understood the true meaning of “self-made.” I was unspoiled and un-entitled, which also meant that I saw myself as less precious than many of my peers.This turned into a tremendous advantage as I navigated my way through a career as an FBI agent, and later, as a writer and artist. But here is the thing: We all have experiences that make us unique and different.

Sure, some stories sound better than others but the most practical, and easiest way for you to find success in troubled times, is to take ownership of the experiences that created who you are today. Excavate the significance of your own stories because no one knows them better than you.